Comments on: Do You Have Emotional Integrity?

By: Jonice

Jonice — Thu, 29 Nov 2018 21:40:20 +0000

In reply to Valerie. Dear Valerie, you are not broken. Just neglected. I'm so glad to have helped you realize that.

By: Valerie

Valerie — Thu, 29 Nov 2018 21:25:22 +0000

Your book is helping me to understand why I am how I am. Failure to thrive seems to show the quick version of CEN and explain how much we must have emotional validation.
Thank you for making me feel less broken.

By: Richard Kram

Richard Kram — Thu, 18 Oct 2018 20:15:42 +0000

In reply to Millie. OMG, your story is like looking in a mirror with a future I hope to alter. I have been following Dr. Webb for some time, I recognize what has effected me, but changing is a whole different thing, like a brick wall in front of me. Thanks for sharing your story, have a great day.

By: beverly putnambevabella@gmail.com

beverly putnambevabella@gmail.com — Mon, 02 Jul 2018 12:43:35 +0000

Hi Dr. I have ordered your book. I hope this information can help me as I totally could not believe i answered yes to so many of your questions. My father was a 22 year naval officer. My mother I remember hardly anything unless i see a picture then, maybe I can recall her. One evening when i was ten years old i was playing a game in dads room closet with a friend. i left to get a drink downstairs , when i returned he had died of a heart attack.My mother turned to alcohol …so my sister who was 21at the time got us out of the house, never to return. Ive been in therapy for 17 years now with same DR. My phsychiatrist said that when a young girl loses her father at a young age …it messes them up for the rest of their life. IT TRULY DOES ! Hope your book can make me a better person. Sincerely, Bev Putnam

By: Jonice

Jonice — Mon, 02 Jul 2018 00:30:29 +0000

In reply to Dorothy Hartman. Thank you Dorothy! I do think I'll do another retreat since this one was so rewarding. I'd love to have you come!

By: Dorothy Hartman

Dorothy Hartman — Sun, 01 Jul 2018 21:27:13 +0000

Dr Jonice, Thank you again for the profound but overlooked insights about holding and hiding things about ourselves which drain our peace of mind and happiness and damage our relationships.
Delighted to hear the retreat was a success
I hope to attend if you have another, if I can manage it.
With gratitude.
Dorothy Hartman

By: Leigh

Leigh — Sun, 01 Jul 2018 16:37:02 +0000

I really like your comparison of emotional integrity to overall integrity. I for one found it very enlightening because it brings out WHY the need to practice that in life. I’ve lived thinking people don’t want to hear your feelings. So wrong. It all makes sense now as to why I lost my marriage due partially to in my ex’s words “I was emotionally drained”. Thanks for awakening what SHOULD have been “common sense”.

Leigh Summer

By: Millie

Millie — Sun, 01 Jul 2018 16:18:13 +0000

I’ve been touched so much by all your information. All my answers to the CEN questions were affirmative. I came to this article from your emails about the 2018 Challenge. I’m 63 and, because of my lifelong emotional ineptitude, I have hardly any relationships to work on. I have a long happy marriage that is my one saving grace. My daughter is alienated, and away with her family for six weeks. She attacked me a couple of years ago, with very bad timing, because I’m travelling a lot, trying to have my own life and not being the perfect Grandma of her fantasies. Of course that shut me down even more. I can’t feel a thing around her. I’m so afraid of being hurt and attacked again.
You say that I’m surrounded by people interested in me. That’s not true. Even my husband seldom asks questions about what I’ve been experiencing on my trips. My son is completely self-involved and just thinks what I’m doing is “cool”. I do feel love and support from him, but no depth.
The new people I meet are fantastic and i could be friends with them, but they are, of course, far away.
I just got your books from the library and am looking forward to learning more. It seems so late in life to start again.

By: Di

Di — Sun, 01 Jul 2018 16:13:00 +0000

My husband was never praised but critisised, nothing was good enough when he was a child.
Throughout our marriage he has had extreme temper and more so if he feels criticised by myself, even if the criticism is carefully given.
He needs to admit to all of it really.

By: Alekxandra

Alekxandra — Sun, 01 Jul 2018 15:25:10 +0000

Hello. English is not my native language, so, sorry for mistakes. As a member of CEN “community”, I believe that our past, in this contest, determinate our choices in life while we are so unconscious about it. Even if we were exposed to several hundreds hours of education in psychotherapy(as I was). I wonder, does only psychoanalysis can bring the light in our core of decision making? It would be nice to understand ourselves.