Comments on: Invisible You

By: Christine Cowey

Christine Cowey — Fri, 01 Nov 2019 16:18:03 +0000

Good evening Jonice, would you please keep my e mail address for further e mails you send me. I have not opened previous e mails, concerned about not knowing how my emotions would react. I have depression, panic attacks, OCD, anxiety, fear etc.etc. Will write again when I can. Regards, Christine from Australia

By: Kath

Kath — Tue, 06 Nov 2018 23:29:00 +0000

I was only wondering ‘why am I so invisible’ yesterday. It’s a very weird feeling. Reading this article cleared up some things but I wanted to add. It stirred up the memories of being invisible as a child, well really really quiet. My aunt used to comment and gently tease me about it. No one else noticed. I know I tried to be silent because if I was seen I was a target for my brother who wanted all the attention on him. Any attention on me or even remembering I exist would remind him to torture me and do whatever it too to make me cry just so he could get some feedback from my parents. All I knew was if I was seen no good would come of it. I would be yelled at (father), possibly but not always criticised (mother) or tortured (brother) or teased (all other siblings) so I learned invisible was best. I had no idea the mystery of why I don’t get credit for the things I do in life as an adult was related to this and my unconscious behaviour. So now I know that I can move forward. Thanks Jonice.

By: amie butler

amie butler — Sun, 08 Apr 2018 17:09:57 +0000

thankyou for all your free guidance through articles like this over the years it has helped, maybe one day i will afford a course but until then I appreciate these insights.

By: Tammy

Tammy — Sun, 08 Apr 2018 03:15:35 +0000

I often have wondered why I’m overlooked, ignored, interrupted, talked over, not taken serious, disrespected, and never had anyone fight for me. It’s a lonely world I live in. As I get older I find I’m torn between being comfortable alone and craving the social connection with friends and a mate. I’m also particular about who I open up to ( no drugs, criminal background, bad character). Thoughts?